ocdturtle asked: I think what John was saying, which I personally agree with, is that having sex because you enjoy it is okay. There are a lot of problems with people saying "you enjoy sex so i don't respect you." I do find it a bit assuming of you to say that an individual cannot be as committed to a relationship if they've had sex with another person ever in their life. There are different views, but you should use these views to control your decisions only- not to judge other people.
as I tried stating, but apparently not clearly enough. I don’t judge people if they’ve had multiple sex partners, I just wouldn’t date, and eventually marry, someone who is already sexually active.
